Sisters In Sobriety

You know that sinking feeling when you wake up with a hangover and think: “I’m never doing this again”? We’ve all been there. But what happens when you follow through? Sonia Kahlon and Kathleen Killen can tell you, because they did it! They went from sisters-in-law, to Sisters in Sobriety. In this podcast, Sonia and Kathleen invite you into their world, as they navigate the ups and downs of sobriety, explore stories of personal growth and share their journey of wellness and recovery. Get ready for some real, honest conversations about sobriety, addiction, and everything in between. Episodes will cover topics such as: reaching emotional sobriety, how to make the decision to get sober, adopting a more mindful lifestyle, socializing without alcohol, and much more. Whether you’re sober-curious, seeking inspiration and self-care through sobriety, or embracing the alcohol-free lifestyle already… Tune in for a weekly dose of vulnerability, mutual support and much needed comic relief. Together...

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Monday Aug 12, 2024

In this exciting episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen dive into the buzzy topic of using psychedelics in addiction recovery. From psilocybin to ketamine, these substances are being explored for their potential to help break the cycle of addiction. Today's guest, Michelle Hudasko, is here to share her unique journey from working with new moms to becoming a certified ketamine-assisted psychotherapist.Get ready for an engaging chat as Sonia and Kathleen ask all the burning questions: How can psychedelics help with addiction? What makes someone a good fit for this kind of therapy? How does ketamine work to treat conditions like depression and PTSD? You'll find out the answers to these questions and more as we unpack the potential and the science behind these therapies.Listeners will walk away with a better understanding of the benefits of psychedelics, the importance of having the right support, and what to expect from these treatments. Michelle breaks down the different ways psychedelics can be administered and how therapists create a safe and supportive environment for their clients. This episode is packed with insights and information for anyone curious about this innovative approach to mental health and recovery.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:06] - Kathleen discusses the potential of psychedelics like psilocybin and ayahuasca for addiction treatment.[00:01:24] - Michelle introduces ketamine and its use in controlled therapeutic settings for treating depression, PTSD, and addiction.[00:01:55] - Guest introduction: Michelle Hodesco, a therapist with experience in perinatal psychotherapy and a certification in ketamine-assisted psychotherapy.[00:02:51] - Michelle shares her personal journey and how she became interested in psychedelic therapies.[00:03:40] - Discussion on the historical and cultural significance of psychedelics.[00:04:29] - Michelle talks about the potential of psychedelics for treatment-resistant depression and acute PTSD.[00:05:01] - Addressing skepticism and resistance towards psychedelic therapy.[00:06:34] - Explanation of who might be excluded from psychedelic therapy.[00:07:23] - Misconceptions about psychedelic therapy and its medical model versus sacred, ritualistic use.[00:09:00] - The role of psychedelics in addiction treatment and their neuroplastic effects.[00:10:57] - The importance of setting and guidance in psychedelic therapy.[00:12:07] - Criteria for being a suitable candidate for psychedelic therapy.[00:16:00] - Handling challenging experiences during psychedelic sessions.[00:18:04] - Potential for substance abuse or dependency on psychedelics.[00:20:20] - The process and benefits of microdosing psychedelics.[00:22:00] - Differences between psilocybin and ketamine in terms of their impact on mental health.[00:26:05] - Psychological preparations needed for a safe and effective treatment session.[00:30:35] - Description of a typical psychedelic therapy session, including administration methods and the importance of music.[00:35:00] - The role of the therapist during a psychedelic session, focusing on holding space and providing support.[00:38:19] - Discussion on the concept of "bad trips" and reframing them as challenging but meaningful experiences.[00:41:00] - Strategies for handling breakthroughs and insights during and after psychedelic sessions.[00:43:00] - Frequency and scheduling of follow-up and integration sessions post-psychedelic treatment.[00:45:00] - Collaboration between psychedelic therapists and primary therapists for comprehensive care.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Aug 05, 2024

In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, hosts Sonia and Kathleen chat with Erin Gilmour, the founder of Rose Psychotherapy. Erin is a Registered Psychotherapist (RP) and Certified Canadian Addiction Counsellor (CCAC), known for her warm, down-to-earth approach to therapy. Specializing in helping individuals with addictions and eating disorders, Erin brings a wealth of knowledge and personal experience to the table. Her own recovery journey informs her empathetic and understanding approach, and she is also a strong advocate for marginalized communities, addressing systemic issues in her practice.Today, Sonia and Kathleen will be diving into the fascinating Internal Family Systems (IFS) model with Erin. Erin will explain the IFS model in simple terms. Imagine that inside each of us, there are different "parts" or aspects of our personality that influence how we think, feel, and behave. For example, there might be a part of you that gets really critical when you make a mistake, and another part that just wants to comfort you with a treat. IFS helps us recognize these parts and understand their roles. Here are a few key parts:Managers: These parts try to keep us in control and avoid pain. They might be the inner critic that pushes us to do better or the planner that keeps us organized.Firefighters: These parts jump in to distract us from pain. They might urge us to eat, drink, or binge-watch TV when we're feeling stressed.Exiles: These are the hurt parts of us that hold pain and trauma. They often get pushed aside or "exiled" because the other parts want to protect us from feeling that pain.By understanding these parts and learning to work with them, we can start to heal and make healthier choices. Erin will also talk about why being kind to ourselves is so important and how mindfulness can help us stay groundedThis is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:10] - Introduction to Erin Gilmour: Erin's background in providing compassionate, evidence-based therapy for mental health issues, including addiction, using the IFS model.[00:02:10] - Erin’s Journey: Erin shares her personal story and what led her to become a psychotherapist.[00:03:50] - Founding Rose Psychotherapy: Erin discusses the motivation and challenges behind starting her own practice.[00:06:34] - Explanation of IFS: Erin gives an overview of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model.[00:07:35] - Parts of the Self: Introduction to the concept of different “parts” within us, such as managers, firefighters, and exiles.[00:10:00] - Managers and Firefighters: Erin explains the roles of managers and firefighters in our internal system.[00:13:00] - Exiles: Discussion on exiles, the parts of us that hold pain and trauma.[00:14:30] - No Bad Parts: Emphasizing that there are no bad parts, only parts trying to help in their own ways.[00:16:20] - Practical Examples: Erin gives practical examples of how these parts might manifest in daily life.[00:18:50] - Introducing IFS to Clients: How Erin introduces the concept of IFS to her clients in a relatable way.[00:21:40] - Working with Protectors: The process of working with managers and firefighters before addressing exiles.[00:25:00] - Addiction and IFS: How the IFS model specifically addresses addiction and helps in recovery.[00:27:30] - Healing Exiles: The gentle process of working with and healing exiled parts.[00:31:00] - Self-Compassion: The importance of self-compassion in the healing process.[00:34:00] - Integrating Mindfulness: How mindfulness practices complement the IFS model in therapy.[00:37:15] - Client Success Stories: Erin shares success stories from her practice where IFS made a significant impact.[00:40:00] - Continuing IFS Outside Therapy: Practical tips for clients to continue working with their parts outside of therapy sessions.[00:42:30] - IFS Tools: Introduction to IFS journaling activities, meditations, and parts mapping exercises.[00:44:10] - Overcoming Misconceptions: Addressing common misconceptions about IFS and how it’s different from other therapeutic models.[00:45:00] - Closing Thoughts: Final thoughts from Erin on the power of IFS in addiction recovery and overall mental health.LinksContact Erin at www.rosepsychotherapy.caSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Jul 29, 2024

In this episode of Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen are excited to bring you an insightful discussion with Derek Brown, a renowned author, NASM certified wellness coach, and founder of Positive Damage. Derek is known for his inspiring journey from being one of America's top bartenders to becoming a leading advocate for mindful drinking and inclusive spaces. Today, Derek shares his personal story and insights on how we can all foster a healthier relationship with alcohol.We delve into Derek's fascinating transition from a celebrated bartender to a mindful drinking advocate. Key questions we explore include: What led Derek to change his relationship with alcohol? How can we incorporate mindful drinking into our daily lives? What are some practical tips for social situations where alcohol is prevalent? These discussions not only provide valuable insights but also help optimize your approach to alcohol and social wellness.Listeners will walk away with a deeper understanding of mindful drinking, including key concepts such as intrinsic goal alignment, the RATE (Replace, Avoid, Temper, Elicit help) strategy, and practical steps to make healthier choices in social settings. Derek also sheds light on the evolving landscape of no and low alcohol cocktails, offering tips for creating sophisticated, non-alcoholic drinks at home. In 2022, Brown published his second book, Mindful Mixology: A Comprehensive Guide to No- and Low-Alcohol Cocktails. This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:00:00] - Introduction of Derek Brown, renowned author, NASM certified wellness coach, and founder of Positive Damage.[00:01:13] - Derek's impressive background: from top bartender to advocate for no and low alcohol cocktails.[00:01:54] - Derek shares his personal journey from bartending to mindful drinking advocacy.[00:02:18] - Early life experiences with alcohol, including family struggles and personal challenges.[00:03:01] - Describing the intense lifestyle of bartending and its impact on his relationship with alcohol.[00:04:16] - Decision to change his relationship with alcohol and seek therapy and wellness coaching.[00:04:57] - Explanation of Derek's unique approach to mindful drinking and its personal significance.[00:05:15] - Addressing the concept of mindful drinking and how it differs from traditional sobriety.[00:07:25] - Challenges faced during his journey to mindful drinking, including social and career obstacles.[00:08:49] - The importance of finding better coping mechanisms and improving mental health.[00:09:34] - The process of facing personal problems without the aid of alcohol.[00:10:25] - Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and its relevance to mindful drinking.[00:12:00] - Defining mindful drinking and its connection to personal goals and values.[00:13:56] - Practical steps for incorporating mindful drinking into daily life, such as journaling and setting goals.[00:14:50] - The RATE acronym: Replace, Avoid, Temper, Elicit help, and how it aids mindful drinking.[00:15:51] - Social challenges of mindful drinking and tips for navigating social situations.[00:18:00] - Derek's views on the evolving culture of drinking, especially among different age groups.[00:22:09] - Addressing misconceptions about alcohol's health benefits and the shift in societal attitudes.[00:23:50] - Strategies for managing stigma and embarrassment when choosing not to drink.[00:26:32] - Positive responses from the bar and restaurant industry to Derek's work and advocacy.Derek's LinksWebsite: positivedamageinc.comSubstack: https://positivedamage.substack.comInstagram/Threads: @positivedamageincLinkedin: Derek BrownLinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Jul 22, 2024

Welcome to another episode of "Sisters in Sobriety." Today, Sonia and Kathleen tackle the highs and lows of the early sobriety journey. They'll break down the "pink cloud" phase and share tips on handling sobriety fatigue, making sure you're well-prepared for the ride ahead.In this chat, Sonia and Kathleen discuss the pink cloud—those early days of sobriety when everything feels amazing. They’ll answer questions like: What is the pink cloud? How long does it last? Why do we experience sobriety fatigue? And how can we deal with it? These insights will help you stay balanced and motivated.You’ll learn about the temporary nature of the pink cloud, how to stay grounded, and practical strategies to overcome sobriety fatigue. Topics include the physical and mental perks of early sobriety, the challenges of long-term recovery, and the importance of self-care, mindfulness, and support networks.The episode also features personal stories, including Sonia's struggles with sobriety fatigue and Kathleen's reflections on her early sobriety. This is "Sisters in Sobriety," the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramHighlights: [00:02:08] What the pink cloud is and why it matters. [00:02:29] Introduction to sobriety fatigue. [00:04:00] Sonia’s first sober high. [00:05:00] Understanding the temporary pink cloud. [00:06:53] Kathleen’s personal experience with early sobriety and fatigue. [00:09:00] How the pink cloud affects mental health and relationships. [00:10:30] Staying grounded during the pink cloud phase. [00:11:18] Feelings during the pink cloud. [00:12:46] How long the pink cloud lasts. [00:13:25] Why the pink cloud can be misleading. [00:14:24] Staying motivated after the pink cloud. [00:15:33] Navigating relationships while on the pink cloud. [00:18:13] Common setbacks after the pink cloud. [00:19:18] Managing expectations during early sobriety. [00:20:51] Prepping for the end of the pink cloud. [00:22:26] Sonia’s experience with sobriety fatigue and how she copes.[00:24:00] Kathleen talks about the value of gratitude in sobriety.[00:26:09] Recognizing symptoms of sobriety fatigue.[00:27:31] Effective strategies for dealing with sobriety fatigue.[00:28:13] Importance of mindfulness and self-care.[00:29:00] Impact of sobriety fatigue on mental health.[00:31:12] Role of therapy and counseling in recovery.[00:32:45] The significance of self-compassion in overcoming fatigue.[00:34:44] How support groups like Everbloom can help.[00:35:39] How family and friends can support during sobriety fatigue.[00:36:43] Turning challenges into growth opportunities.[00:37:51] Maintaining a balanced perspective on sobriety.[00:38:57] Final reflections and takeaways from the discussion.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Jul 15, 2024

Join Sonia in this episode of Sisters in Sobriety as she sits down with Jon Kostas, an inspiring advocate for addiction recovery and a trailblazer in the field of psychedelic-assisted therapy (PAT) for alcohol use disorder. Jon’s journey from struggling with alcoholism to finding a path to sobriety through PAT is nothing short of transformative. His mission? To make this life-changing treatment accessible to everyone who needs it.Jon Kostas made history as the first person to complete a clinical trial at New York University studying psilocybin-assisted therapy for alcohol use disorder. He credits this therapy with curing his stubborn alcoholism and saving his life. Now, he’s on a mission to spread the word and help others through his organization, the Apollo Pact, which raises awareness and promotes psychedelic research by working with researchers and Congress.Sonia and Jon dive into some fascinating topics: What drove Jon to try psilocybin therapy after other treatments failed? How does this unique therapy work, and what sets it apart from traditional methods? What are the potential benefits and risks? This episode sheds light on the exciting world of psychedelic therapy and its promise for addiction recovery.Get ready to learn about the science behind psilocybin therapy and its potential to treat a range of mental health issues. Jon breaks down the rigorous clinical trial process, why medical supervision is crucial, and how advocacy plays a key role in advancing this groundbreaking research. Keywords like "psilocybin-assisted therapy," "psychedelic research," and "addiction recovery" will pop up throughout, making complex ideas easy to understand.Jon’s personal story is incredibly relatable. He opens up about his battles with alcohol, the many recovery attempts that didn’t stick, and how psilocybin therapy turned his life around. His journey from hopelessness to hope will resonate with anyone facing similar struggles. As he shares his current advocacy efforts, Jon paints a hopeful picture of the future of addiction treatment.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.*Jon was interviewed by Anderson Cooper for 60 Minutes, Harry Smith for NBC’s TODAY Show, Nightly News with Lester Holt, Sunday TODAY with Willie Geist, and Michael Pollan for How to Change Your Mind. He has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, New York Times, Fox, CBS, NBC, CNN, TIME Magazine, New York Post, Washington Post, U.S. News & World Report, among other national outlets.Highlights:[00:01:14] - Introduction of Jon Kostas, his journey from alcoholism to recovery through psychedelic-assisted therapy.[00:02:00] - Jon discusses the founding of the Apollo Pact and its mission to change addiction treatment.[00:02:37] - Jon shares a bit about his early life and what led him to begin his recovery journey.[00:04:00] - Jon describes his first experience with AA meetings and how it resonated with him.[00:07:00] - Sonia asks Jon if he continued drinking after his first AA meeting, and Jon explains his struggle with maintaining sobriety.[00:08:50] - Jon talks about his experience with numerous treatment attempts and the frustration of treatment-resistant alcoholism.[00:11:00] - Discussion about the perception of alcoholism as a disease and how it impacts patients.[00:12:30] - Jon shares his thoughts on the guilt and moral hangovers associated with drinking.[00:16:00] - Jon explains his initial fear and hesitation about entering the psilocybin-assisted therapy trial.[00:19:00] - Description of the screening and preparation process for the psilocybin sessions.[00:21:00] - Jon describes the setup and environment of his first psilocybin therapy session.[00:24:00] - Jon shares the transformative experience during his first psilocybin session and the realization of its impact.[00:26:00] - Jon discusses the symbolism he experienced during his sessions, such as seeing a liquor bottle disintegrate.[00:28:00] - Insights into the peacefulness Jon felt during a death experience in one of his sessions.[00:30:00] - Jon talks about the difference between psilocybin therapy and other treatments like ketamine.[00:32:00] - Explanation of the legal status of psilocybin and the importance of clinical trials for approval.[00:34:00] - Jon emphasizes the need for proper medical supervision and the safety of psilocybin treatment.[00:36:20] - Discussion about the potential for FDA approval and making psilocybin treatment more accessible.[00:38:00] - Jon talks about the advocacy work of the Apollo Pact and its role in advancing psychedelic research.[00:44:00] - Jon reflects on how his understanding of recovery has evolved and the importance of new treatment approaches.Links:Find Out More About Jon's Work Here - www.apollopact.orgSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. 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Monday Jul 08, 2024

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Kathleen and Sonia tackle a fear many in recovery face: wondering if all the fun ends when you choose sobriety. Spoiler alert—it doesn't! They dive into how life without alcohol can be more vibrant and full of genuine joy, with the sparkle just beginning.Kathleen and Sonia chat about how our ideas of fun change in sobriety, what it means to truly thrive, and how to find joy in the little things. They bust some myths about fun in sobriety and share their own experiences. Keywords: sobriety, joy, recovery, genuine connection, vibrant life.Listeners will pick up tips on discovering the "sparkle of sobriety," redefining what fun means, and making authentic connections. Kathleen and Sonia discuss how to handle social events without drinking, deal with FOMO, and find activities that genuinely interest you. In the personal story segment, Sonia and Kathleen share how their ideas of fun have evolved since getting sober. They recount memorable, joyful moments and talk about the ups and downs of finding new ways to enjoy life. These stories are relatable and inspiring for anyone on the sober journey.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:00:55] - Sonia and Kathleen introduce the episode and discuss the common fear of losing fun in sobriety.[00:01:26] - Sonia shares Mary Carr’s quote about finding true sparkle in sobriety, setting the tone for the episode.[00:02:14] - Kathleen explains how sobriety can lead to a vibrant life with genuine joy.[00:02:31] - Sonia encourages listeners to grab their favorite non-alcoholic drink and get comfortable.[00:03:00] - Kathleen describes how her definition of fun has evolved since becoming sober.[00:03:46] - Sonia talks about the clarity and awe that comes with sobriety, sharing her experience with a memorable sunset.[00:05:01] - Kathleen shares how feeling physically amazing was a turning point for seeing joy in sobriety.[00:06:16] - Sonia recounts her sober trip to Italy and how it changed her perspective on fun and vacations.[00:08:15] - Sonia reflects on how her wild and crazy persona was shaped by alcohol and her fear of losing it.[00:09:51] - Sonia discusses finding real, authentic fun by leaning into things and people she loves.[00:11:01] - Kathleen talks about how sobriety can boost self-confidence and improve social interactions.[00:12:13] - Sonia explains how sobriety helps uncover the true self hidden under the influence of alcohol.[00:13:25] - Kathleen emphasizes the importance of aligning fun activities with personal values.[00:14:12] - Sonia debunks the myth that alcohol reveals our true selves, sharing her negative experiences.[00:16:20] - Kathleen describes how sobriety allows for a deeper connection with passions and interests.[00:17:12] - Sonia suggests looking back to childhood for inspiration on fun activities in sobriety.[00:19:13] - Kathleen shares how her social life changed drastically after getting sober.[00:21:35] - Sonia talks about finding joy in spontaneous moments with family, like making a lemon pie with her niece.[00:23:47] - Kathleen describes her ideal fun weekend now, focusing on nature and exploring new things.[00:25:34] - Sonia and Kathleen discuss creating new traditions for holidays and celebrations to maintain sobriety and have fun.Links:Sisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Jul 01, 2024

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," host Sonia Kahlon is joined by the inspiring Valerie Mason-John, also known as Vimalasara. Valerie is a renowned author and public speaker whose work in the field of addiction and recovery has made a profound impact. Today, Sonia explores Valerie's unique approach to addiction recovery, which blends mindfulness, compassion, and holistic practices. They will be discussing Valerie’s journey, their groundbreaking methodologies, and how these can help listeners on their own sobriety journeys.Valerie Mason-John (Vimalasara) is the author of several acclaimed books, including "Eight Step Recovery: Using the Buddha’s Teachings to Overcome Addiction" and "Detox Your Heart: Meditations for Emotional Trauma." They are also a public speaker and co-founder of the international Mindfulness-Based Addiction Recovery (MBAR) program. With their extensive background in both addiction recovery and Buddhism, Valerie offers a unique perspective that combines practical strategies with spiritual insights. Their latest book, "First Aid Kit for the Mind: Breaking the Cycle of Habitual Behaviors," continues to provide valuable tools for those seeking recovery.Throughout the episode, listeners will delve into key questions such as: What are the primary triggers for addictive behaviors? How can mindfulness and meditation be integrated into recovery practices? What role does self-compassion play in overcoming addiction? By addressing these questions, the episode provides valuable insights and practical strategies for listeners on their sobriety journey.Educational takeaways from this episode include understanding the habit loop of addiction, the importance of creating a personalized recovery plan, and techniques for managing cravings and triggers. Listeners will also learn about the benefits of meditation and mindfulness, and how these practices can support long-term recovery and emotional well-being.In the personal story segment, Valerie shares their journey from struggling with addiction to becoming a leader in the recovery community. Their candid account of overcoming challenges and finding empowerment through mindfulness and compassion is both moving and motivational. Valerie also discusses how their Buddhist practice has shaped their approach to addiction and recovery, providing deeper insights into the spiritual aspects of their journey.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:00] - Introduction to Valerie Mason-John, also known as Vimalasara, author and public speaker with a profound impact on the field of addiction and recovery.[00:02:00] - Valerie's early life and initial struggles with addiction, including sugar and shoe cleaner.[00:04:00] - Valerie discussing the challenges of disordered eating and their journey with bulimia and anorexia.[00:06:00] - The turning point in Valerie's life when they realized the need to seek recovery.[00:07:30] - Valerie’s experience working with women in rehab and the influence of the Petrasca cycle of change.[00:09:00] - The beginning of Valerie’s sobriety journey and the role of meditation and mindfulness.[00:10:20] - Valerie’s one-woman show and how it influenced their recovery from disordered eating.[00:11:00] - The role of specialized treatment in Valerie’s recovery from disordered eating.[00:12:30] - Valerie discussing the importance of mindfulness and meditation in their recovery.[00:13:30] - How Buddhist teachings, particularly the Four Noble Truths, shaped Valerie's approach to recovery.[00:15:00] - Valerie explaining the concept of “going for refuge” in Buddhism and its impact on their recovery.[00:17:00] - The significance of letting go in the context of recovery and stopping addictive behaviors.[00:19:00] - The story of Angulimala and its relevance to addiction recovery.[00:22:00] - The difference between stopping a thought and spiritual bypassing in recovery.[00:23:30] - Valerie's perspective on self-love and compassion as critical components of recovery.[00:25:00] - The importance of addressing childhood conditioning and trauma in the recovery process.[00:27:00] - Valerie distinguishing between mindfulness and meditation and their interconnection.[00:30:00] - The realization that the biggest addiction was their own thinking and how to manage stinking thinking.[00:34:00] - The practice of recognizing thoughts without a thinker and understanding that thoughts are not facts.[00:40:00] - Valerie explaining the concept of coming home to the body and its significance in recoverLinks:First Aid Kit for the Mind BookValerie Mason-John's WebsiteSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. 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Monday Jun 24, 2024

Today on Sisters in Sobriety, Sonia and Kathleen dive into the unique challenges and joys of vacationing while maintaining sobriety. They share their personal journeys and practical tips to help you navigate your next getaway with confidence and ease. Whether you're planning a family visit, a beach retreat, or a solo adventure, this episode is packed with insights to support your sober travel experience.In this episode, Sonia and Kathleen tackle the big questions that come with sober vacationing. How do you handle unexpected triggers? What strategies can you use to maintain your routine? And how do you navigate cultural differences around alcohol consumption? These discussions are crucial for anyone in recovery, ensuring you're well-prepared and supported on your trip.You'll walk away with practical tips for packing, creating a supportive itinerary, and developing strategies for social situations involving alcohol. The hosts cover essential topics like managing anxiety, setting boundaries, and finding joy in new experiences, all while staying true to your sobriety. Sonia shares her transformative experience of a trip to Italy booked before her sobriety journey, offering candid insights on navigating wine tours and social pressures. Kathleen recounts her enriching, sober trip to Hawaii, highlighting how sobriety opened up new opportunities for connection and self-care.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:0:00 - Introduction: Navigating Sobriety on Vacation 6:30 - The Unique Challenges of Vacationing Sober 8:45 - Planning Ahead: Why It’s Crucial 10:20 - Strategies for Managing Triggers 12:15 - Importance of Maintaining Routine 14:05 - How to Handle Social Situations with Alcohol 16:10 - Tips for Navigating Airports and Flights Sober 18:50 - Kathleen’s Experience with FOMO on Vacation 21:00 - Sonia’s Story: Sober Trip to Italy 24:30 - Kathleen’s Story: Sober Trip to Hawaii 26:45 - Cultural Differences Around Alcohol Consumption 29:20 - How to Communicate Sobriety to Friends and Family 32:15 - Creating a Supportive Travel Itinerary 34:00 - Finding Joy in New, Alcohol-Free Experiences 36:10 - Practical Tips for Packing and Preparing 38:00 - Mocktail Hour: Favorite Non-Alcoholic Beverages 40:25 - Personal Story: Sonia’s Struggles and Triumphs 42:00 - Wrap-Up: Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters In Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Jun 17, 2024

This week on Sisters in Sobriety, we explore the transformative power of art therapy in addiction recovery. Joining us is Sarah Smith who will guide us through the fascinating intersections of creativity and healing. Sarah is a passionate artist and non-traditional art therapist, owning Soul-Full Art Therapy where she helps individuals explore the wellness benefits of the creative process. Sarah is a member of the Canadian Art Therapy Association (CATA) and has chosen to maintain her focus on art for wellness rather than merging with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). She facilitates art workshops at Sweet Spot Family Counselling and offers private sessions for individuals seeking a creative outlet for wellness. Her servIn this episode, we dive deep into the role of art as a therapeutic tool. Key questions we'll explore include: How can art therapy support individuals in their recovery journey? Do you need to be artistically talented to benefit from art therapy? What are some practical ways to incorporate art therapy techniques at home? These discussions will highlight keywords such as "art therapy," "addiction recovery," and "creative healing." Listeners will gain insight into several key concepts, including the importance of open-mindedness in art therapy, how art therapy can complement other forms of therapy like mindfulness and physical exercise, and the cognitive and emotional benefits of engaging in creative processes. We'll also discuss practical art therapy exercises like art journaling, and how to identify and interpret personal symbols in your artwork. Our guest, Sarah, shares her compelling personal story about her journey with art therapy. You'll hear about a transformative moment in her own art therapy experience, where she discovered hidden themes in her work that led to profound personal insights. This segment underscores the deep emotional connections that art can reveal and how it can be a powerful tool for self-discovery and healing.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:00:00] - Sonia introduces the self-paced seven-day reset program designed to help reset your relationship with alcohol.[00:01:34] - Kathleen shares her initial hesitation about art therapy due to perceived lack of artistic talent.[00:01:55] - Sarah explains that no artistic talent is needed; an open mind is what counts in art therapy.[00:02:19] - Sarah describes starting with collage and art journaling for those who feel intimidated by drawing.[00:02:56] - Sarah recounts her personal story about discovering a recurring heart theme in her artwork during art therapy school.[00:04:00] - Sarah reflects on how she realized she wasn't paying attention to her own needs, leading to an emotional breakthrough.[00:05:02] - Discussion about the importance of a non-judgmental, supportive environment in art therapy.[00:06:06] - Sarah emphasizes that there is no judgment in art therapy and encourages self-expression without self-criticism.[00:07:13] - Sarah explains the benefits of focusing on the process and feelings rather than the final product in art therapy.[00:09:16] - Kathleen suggests using art therapy techniques in couples therapy and mindfulness practices.[00:10:00] - Sarah talks about the art therapist's role in helping clients interpret and understand their artwork.[00:11:00] - Sarah shares a story about a boy who stopped speaking and how art therapy helped uncover and address his trauma.[00:12:33] - Kathleen recalls her childhood trauma and how it influenced her drawings, highlighting the subconscious power of art.[00:14:00] - Sarah discusses the use of repetitive and grounding activities, like mandala drawing, to manage overwhelming emotions.[00:15:22] - Sarah identifies common challenges clients face when starting art therapy, such as apprehension about their artistic skills.[00:16:56] - Sarah shares her experience working with dementia patients and how art therapy helps them express themselves.[00:18:46] - Sonia and Sarah discuss the cognitive and emotional benefits of art therapy, such as improved mood and emotional expression.[00:20:31] - Sarah provides practical advice for starting an art journal at home, emphasizing the importance of just starting and letting the process unfold.[00:25:00] - Kathleen and Sarah talk about the holistic benefits of art therapy in conjunction with other therapeutic modalities, emphasizing the mind-body-soul connection.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSisters in Sobriety InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Monday Jun 10, 2024

In this episode of "Sisters in Sobriety," Sonia and Kathleen explore the powerful role of art in healing, wellness, and recovery from alcohol use disorder. Joined by Sarah Smith, the compassionate owner of Soulful Art Therapy, the discussion delves into how art therapy can transform lives, providing a unique and effective outlet for emotional expression and long-term sobriety. Today, Sonia and Kathleen will guide you through the fascinating world of art therapy, sharing insights and stories of transformation.Sarah is a passionate artist and non-traditional art therapist, owning Soul-Full Art Therapy where she helps individuals explore the wellness benefits of the creative process. Sarah is a member of the Canadian Art Therapy Association (CATA) and has chosen to maintain her focus on art for wellness rather than merging with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario (CRPO). She facilitates art workshops at Sweet Spot Family Counselling and offers private sessions for individuals seeking a creative outlet for wellness. Her services are not a replacement for therapy and are not covered by insurance, serving instead as a tool for healing and recreation.This episode unpacks the multifaceted role of art as therapy in the recovery process. Key questions addressed include: How can engaging in creative processes provide a powerful outlet for emotions? What are the unique benefits of art therapy compared to traditional talk therapy? How does art therapy support long-term sobriety and emotional well-being? Through these discussions, listeners will gain a comprehensive understanding of how art therapy can be a vital tool in their recovery journey. Listeners will learn about the core concepts of art therapy, including its ability to foster self-awareness, emotional expression, and healing. The episode highlights how art therapy can address common misconceptions and explains how the creative process can help individuals regain a sense of control and manage their emotions effectively. Sarah shares practical insights and examples of art therapy in action, demonstrating its therapeutic impact and the potential for profound personal transformation.Sarah shares a touching story from her practice about a man who initially resisted art therapy but ultimately experienced a significant emotional breakthrough. This powerful narrative illustrates the deep impact art therapy can have, revealing underlying emotions and facilitating healing in unexpected ways. Through Sarah’s compassionate guidance, this story serves as a testament to the transformative power of art in recovery.This is Sisters in Sobriety, the support community that helps women change their relationship with alcohol. Check out our Substack for extra tips, tricks, and resources.Highlights:[00:01:00] - Introduction of guest Sarah Smith, owner of Soulful Art Therapy, and her work in guiding people on their wellness journeys through art.[00:01:34] - Kathleen discusses the role of art as therapy in recovery, exploring its benefits in providing an outlet for emotions and supporting long-term sobriety.[00:02:03] - Sarah introduces her sidekick, Louie the dog, who might be heard snoring during the episode.[00:02:31] - Sarah shares her background, how she became an art therapist, and her journey from being an artist to discovering art therapy.[00:04:10] - Sarah explains why she chose to practice art for wellness rather than merging with the College of Psychotherapists.[00:04:38] - Sarah defines art therapy and explains how it differs from other forms of therapy.[00:05:30] - Discussion on common misconceptions about art therapy, such as it being child's play or requiring artistic skill.[00:07:00] - Kathleen and Sarah discuss the judgment people face in school art classes and how it impacts their willingness to engage in art therapy.[00:08:12] - Sarah explains how art therapy can help people in addiction recovery by providing a sense of control and a healthy outlet for emotions.[00:09:13] - Sarah talks about the unique elements of art therapy that make it effective for those dealing with addiction, such as self-expression and emotional release.[00:10:13] - The importance of the process and how art holds the space for individuals, helping to lighten their emotional load.[00:11:00] - Sonia shares her experience with photography as a form of art therapy during her sobriety journey.[00:12:59] - Sarah explains the various art mediums used in art therapy and how they are chosen based on individual needs.[00:15:00] - Discussion on how the process of creating art, rather than the finished piece, is essential in art therapy.[00:17:06] - Sarah describes the typical process of an art therapy session, including grounding exercises and personalized art directives[00:20:09] - Sarah explains that the art therapy process for those in recovery is the same but tailored to individual needs, addressing physical, emotional, and mental aspects.[00:21:00] - Discussion on how creating art helps people process their emotions by shrinking them to a manageable size.[00:22:00] - Sarah shares a powerful story about an inpatient unit participant who found emotional release and self-discovery through art therapy.[00:29:00] - Sarah discusses how art therapy addresses trauma and severe anxiety, commonly associated with addiction, by providing a healthy escape and emotional management.LinksSisters In Sobriety Substack - find more tips, tricks, resources, and communitySisters In Sobriety EmailSonia's EverBlume WebsiteSonia’s EverBlume InstagramKathleen’s Website Kathleen does not endorse any products mentioned in this podcastKathleen’s InstagramSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sisters-in-sobriety/donations Hosted on Acast. 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